Carpe Diem

An old friend of a friend died recently—someone I’d never met. But in marking his life, with a memorial of photos and shared memories among his family and friends, I got to know him enough to be inspired.

What a life.

Here is a guy who sailed across the Atlantic in an historic schooner, with Greenpeace. It took something like 27 days. He lived on the legendary Farm in Tennessee (yes, that Farm, the intentional community founded by Stephen and Ina May Gaskin), hiked the snow-capped mountains of Chile, and spent his last years growing acres of lush fruit trees and organic vegetables in that country. He was a craftsman and an adventurer, someone who lived life to the fullest.

I told my son, Tyler, about him, told him how I was inspired to reach beyond the comfort of another predictable day to consider the opportunities for adventure and risk that might come my way – to think outside the box. Tyler hardly needs to hear this tale—at age 20, he has lived it already, having spent two months on an organic farm in Costa Rica, ridden his bike across country and backpacked through Europe. He’s just returned from 10 days on the Appalachian Trail with 15 14-year-olds.

Similarly, his sister, Clara, just 18, has plunged into the mountains of El Salvador to build latrines in a sweltering jungle for an ecotourism site. At age 16, she flew by herself to New Orleans and joined a work crew painting apartments for hurricane victims and repairing anti-erosion fences for sand dunes. This month she moved to rural western Virginia, where she knows no one her own age, to nanny for month.

But embracing life happens on a smaller scale as well.

Like one recent weekday morning, when I roll my bike out of the shed, ready to ride the five minutes to the Metro station, then board the air-conditioned train into the city for work. With all the other worker drones. It seems too predictable. So instead of doing the expected, I go back into the house, change into bike shorts, and ride the 40 minutes all the way in to the office. A small choice – but it feels as though I’m getting away with something, taking a mini-vacation on my way to work.

On my ride, I pass the Dance Place, a center for classes and performances founded by another risk-taking innovator. An adventure when visionary founder Carla Perlo first purchased the building on a then-dicey street in Brookland in the early 1980s, it’s recently expanded to include a newly erected complex of studio, gallery, performance and rehearsal space with affordable apartments for artists and their families. Brilliant.

My ride also takes me past an older woman bent over a bright orange, five-gallon bucket in her front yard, watering the tomatoes she’s planted in it. No garden space? Innovate. I pass an old man slowly crossing a busy city street with his cane, trusting that cars will stop for him—a small but important act of faith. Like the one I’d witnessed before I’d left my house that morning: one of my friendliest neighbors, recovering from too many physical challenges for me to track, has taken his own cane and ventured all the way around our block. At my house, he stops long enough for a good chat and a bit of a rest before finishing his trek.

All of it is inspiring. Carpe Diem. Whatever the Diem may be.

Happy Fourth of July, Happy Summer

Hot.
Humid.
And beautiful.

Our Fourth of July parade is like a community portrait: you get the marchers, from Shriners—serious-faced, older African American men, with their funny, tassled hats—to Peruvian dancers, exuberantly dressed like lions, or in bright skirts and pants. There are bands, including the mostly-brass Takoma Park Community Band tootling along in the back of a truck; the perennial D.C. Motors rock and roll trio (“unplugged,” but playing with amps); and the Takoma Park Folk Festival contribution of a group of 20-plus people singing along with a guitar—again, in the back of a truck. The crowd sings along with them.

We get to wave to our neighbors, who march with the Unitarian Church, the boy scouts (in their hand-made roller derby cars), the community preschool and the attachment parenting group (they pass out fliers to explain exactly what that means). The Elementary School rolls along with a flat wagon dressed up as a swimming pool, to celebrate the pool they have there – the one that was almost abandoned, but then saved by they community. Their principal marches along with them.

The natural foods co-op wheels shopping carts with live-green messages on them, and gives away re-usable grocery bags. The manager of the new Ace hardware store drives by to hearty applause; the Panquility calypso band gets everyone dancing along the sidewalks; the folks who believe 9/11 was a conspiracy hold banners with quotes about truth from our founding fathers, and the parade watchers sober up. There’s the VFW from Hell’s Bottom, a once-backwater neighborhood near my house. We watch antique cars parade by, and a big, old firetruck. The Greenbelt Dog Training Marching Drill Team walk by singing about how they love their doggies, who obediently march along with them. A group of young girls in cheerleading skirts and tank tops, part of the Finest! Parade Marching Wildcats, shimmy and step to a clean drum beat from the boys who march along with them. The Washington Revels, dressed in long dresses and flower garlands, harmonize like good medieval musicians as they march.

Just as much fun as watching this crazy sampling of Takoma Park and its quirkiest neighbors is walking the parade route to see who’s out watching. I greet neighbors I run into every day, and others who rarely turn up, except for at this event: an old friend from my dog park days, another whose son attended elementary school with my daughter, a photographer I used to work with. Friends of the kids’. One of the community center’s artists, the director of public works, the former mayor, the guy who always cleaned up the cones at the soccer games.

And after the parade is finished—“That’s all folks,” proclaims the last car, staffed by two people from the Independence Day Committee that sponsors the event—neighbors disappear into various back yards and houses for follow-up picnics and parties, annual events that have become favorite markers in the Takoma Park calendar.

Yes, summer has arrived and settled in, with all my favorite characters along for the ride.

Photo by Julie Wiatt of the Takoma Voice

That's Clara on the left! With Lauren and her sister.

All That Jazz

“Un. Deux,” he says into the mic.

Then, “Superb!” In French.

It is sound check time at the Jazz Fest in Ascona. When the mics are right, it’s “Grazie mille,” many thanks: French and Italian from an English band playing American music in Switzerland.

This two-week music festival features an international mish mash of gospel tributes, big band, blues and New Orleans Dixieland jazz, set along the Lake Maggiore waterfront of Ascona, a village-like town in the part of southern Switzerland so influenced by Italy that the official language is Italian.

We walk through winding, narrow, cobblestoned streets to arrive at the waterfront, and follow our ears to various stages of international musicians. I wonder, as we listen to The Big Band Connection playing Glenn-Miller style numbers like Begin the Beguine and Satin Doll, whether Swiss horn players are less spontaneous in their improvisation, or more, or just different. The players line up for their turn to solo, which strikes me as a little more organized than what I’ve seen in the States – or maybe that’s just big band vs. smaller ensembles?

The band is set up in the main tent, complete with café tables and a bar, plus Lindy Hop dancers. Swiss ones. Good ones.

We find that, at many of the stages, the European audiences are reserved, compared to Americans. Not much hootin’ and hollerin’ after a hot bass solo, for example (except from me, the loud American I guess). Not much dancing, either, except for here in this tent, where a floor is set aside just for this purpose. At the blues stage, no one gets up at all, but the music is so irresistible we start our own dance floor (and later, the Lindy hoppers come and take over).

One of my favorite scenes this night is a side street filled with audience, all standing, looking up a slight incline to the stage where Mrs. Betty Lastie Williams pays tribute to gospel singer, Mahalia Jackson. These deep, heart-based songs –prayer, with an earthy, driving beat—have even this reserved crowd of (almost entirely white) Europeans swaying. Not all of them. But enough so you can tell they are moved.

Magic.

Photo of Big Jay McNeely by fotopedrazzini.ch

Beachy

I grew up at the beach in Florida, and visit it each year in Maryland or Virginia. There we roll out our towels on the sand and lie in the hot sun; we read books, surf, play Frisbee. When I was a kid, there was one place where we could buy food: the Sea Burger, which served bad hamburgers, fries, soda and ice cream.

What we did not do at the beach was drink coffee. Or steins of beer. Or have espresso and pastries in the afternoon. Or meet friends for a game of cards at a café table near the water.

These are the things people do at German and Swiss beaches.

The two lakeside beaches I visited during my trip to Europe each had a perfect mix of sun and shade. Sticky sand in the bindings of our books wasn’t an issue, as we could choose to spread out our towels on grass. At Lake Maggiore, where we went to the Lido Locarno, the sand that was along the shore was fine, like ocean beach sand, and the water was clear. Sailboats and small power boats drifted out past a raft you could swim to, but the water was so cold I only stayed in for long enough to dunk my head and gasp, then get back out into the sun.

There was a playground for children, and an older couple playing cards at one of the tables set up under a bit of shelter where, in the U.S., a boardwalk might have been. We set up another table and took advantage of the free wi-fi to book a hotel in the next town on our itinerary.

Nearby, another table of two old women enjoyed cappuccino and pastry. A big-bellied, shirtless man on the other side held his beer glass up to the sunlight, considering what—its amber color? Anticipating its refreshing bite?—before taking another gulp. The locals greeted one another as they arrived as if these were the weekly routine.

There were young children everywhere, from babies to teens, but none of the sun-scorched, overtired screeching I associate with an American day at the beach. In fact, I didn’t even smell sunscreen. And although there was ice cream, there was no sugary-sweet smell of waffle cones or the scent of fried foods in the air.

Here at the lakeside beach in Kaiserslautern, a similarly bucolic scene surrounds us. We are camped out in the shade of dozens of tall birches in an enormous grassy field. There is plenty of shade—or sun—for everyone. Two pairs of people play badminton (no net). Earlier we tossed an aerobie (those middle-less Frisbees) beside some Americans playing catch with a baseball. On the water, a rowboat glides quietly; a few children splash in the shallows, and some swimmers congregate on the dock. The water is cold—68 degrees F, 20 degrees Celsius—but much warmer than Maggiore, so I swim briefly before getting out. It’s also browner, with an odd, slimy feel to it. And the “sand” looks more like dirt, plowed up in a neat rectangle beside the lake as if it’s ready to plant. We stay on the grass.

About 20 yards from the water is a group of tables at an outdoor, self-serve restaurant – as in, order fries or spaghetti or bratwurst and pick up when ready. Again, there’s a couple playing cards. Some friends drinking steins of beer. People eating French fries, with mayonnaise. There are showers and bathrooms and cabanas is you want to store beach chairs and rafts and inflatable canoes.

We have these sorts of things at some of our U.S. beaches, I suppose. Perhaps one of the differences, the open space for example, is due to these being lakes, and not ocean beaches. The sun is less scorching, the surf less frantic. There is some sort of calm over the scene that is generally missing at so many crowded American beaches in summer.

Also, nearly all the women wear bikinis, regardless of their age, and the men are in various lengths of shorts, from stretchy, just-below-the-buttocks style (just short of speedo-style) to knee-length and baggy. In the farther reaches of the closely-clipped, grassy field are a couple of nude sunbathers. No one seems particularly body conscious, neither preening about what babes and studs they are, or embarrassed that they don’t meet the expectation of a magazine-perfect body.

People are relaxed. We happily follow suit.